Swinger Kiss, Swingers Club in València, Spain

Have you never been to a swinger place?

Most people have a wrong idea of what a swinger club is. Many think it’s just a great orgy, that you take off your clothes at the door and then dive, doing whatever you want with whoever you want.

In Swinger Kiss this is not COMPLETELY the case!
More than anything else, Swinger Kiss is a social club where you will meet and make friends with some of the most pleasant people you have ever met. In some cases, it will form bonds that will last a lifetime.

Many of us have heard of swinging. Okay… some of you may even have to take the image of the swinger of the 70s out of your mind. For many swingers today, the “liberal lifestyle” is social… and may or may not include an ”exchange” of partner, threesome or public sex. Today’s partner exchange is as evolved as we live in 2021.

Swinger, in a conventional sense, has become a kind of socio-sexual phenomenon in recent years. People from all walks of life are attracted to the liberal environment, with the largest influx between the ages of 30 and 40, married, middle to upper class, professionals who come to the scene for the first time. In a society that promotes sexuality, safe couples and singles have been able to develop a sense of sexual maturity. Good communication and honesty about ”what excites you” has led to a point where exploring new experiences has become a popular pastime.

Swinger, in a conventional sense, has become a kind of socio-sexual phenomenon in recent years. People from all walks of life are attracted to the liberal environment, with the largest influx between the ages of 30 and 40, married, middle to upper class, professionals who come to the scene for the first time. In a society that promotes sexuality, safe couples and singles have been able to develop a sense of sexual maturity. Good communication and honesty about ”what excites you” has led to a point where exploring new experiences has become a popular pastime.

The golden rule: does NOT mean NO.
Anyone can say ”NO” for any reason and at any time, even if they are in the middle of a dynamic encounter and have changed their mind and want to stop it right there. If you find yourself in a situation that makes you feel uncomfortable, just say ”No”. Do not endanger your happiness and satisfaction with this lifestyle, or that of your partner, doing something against your will just because you are afraid to say no. The friendliest way is to say, ”Oh, no thanks, but thank you for asking.” Be honest at first and you will avoid misunderstandings. Don’t forget that people’s attitudes change and who knows? Perhaps at some point in the future I may encounter a different opinion again.

Always treat each other with respect.
After all, this is a party! Also, you don’t want to be rude or critical, because you wouldn’t want it to happen to you. If a boy only approaches or talks to you and you are interested only in couples, that does not mean that you cannot be kind to him. He’s a person like you! Just let him know politely.

If it is rejected (and happens to everyone, including women), DO NOT be personally offended.
Rejection is something very personal and is almost as difficult to reject as to be rejected. Honesty among us is crucial. Who knows? You could end up with a great friendship if you handle the situation well.

Deal with jealousy in front! It is a normal reaction.
Remember that this is a strictly physical and recreational pleasure, not emotional. Find out what triggers jealousy in your relationship and solve it together. It may mean modifying their activities, but their relationship together is not worth risking for anything.

Always let your stable partner know that he is number one. Arriving together, taking the time to caress them, touching the base often, makes one feel safe. And always go out together.

Use your common sense and good judgment when you are involved in a changing situation.
Be kind, thoughtful and sensitive. Swingers, couples and single boys are people and also have feelings !!!

Honor each and every previous understanding and rule you have made among you.
And be sure to communicate with each other in an open and honest way so that there are no misunderstandings about your rules.

Respect the guidelines you establish as a couple and communicate them to the possible boys, girls or couples with whom you are going to be. Open and honest communication is imperative to form relationships! And don’t forget to respect the guidelines of others. Don’t try to ”convince them to” change the rules because you don’t agree with them!

Pay attention to body language. Interaction is more than words.
Consider the body language of the person you are talking to and it will tell you more than the conversation you are having! Be sensitive to the person and you will know what makes them uncomfortable or happy and excited.

Demand absolute discretion! And be worthy of the same.
Discretion is paramount in this lifestyle! Privacy is imperative! Never, never discuss the details inappropriately. Everything you do, everything you see, MUST remain private. Swinger Kiss has a saying: ”Everything you see in Swinger Kiss, everything you hear here, must stay here when you leave here”.